Sharron, you don't know me at all, a lot has changed in 23 years. 
  
i have a very good job thankyou very much, one i absolutely love, and i don't need to 'blag' a book, it was handed to me already signed to me .. i think a book in exchange for years of giving up my bedroom is ok don't you? 
  
you keep going anyway, people will soon work things out.