Tbh I think you can get in a routine of not going! Which is a bit bad I suppose. I think if the standard was how it was in the early 2000s I would try harder to go. But atm with after school activities on Mon and thurs, she doesn't finish school til about half 4. I don't exactly live in Poole, so prob only get 90 mins at the most with her before I would have to ask Grandparents to babysit for me. So I can't really justify going.
It's like when work want to do a night out til 2am, on a school night. Like are you kidding me? If I don't fall asleep before 11pm it's a miracle!